“Unwrapping the Real Gift: Moving Beyond the Empty Box of Porn to Discover Synchrony Sex”
“The Knitting Group Dilemma: Navigating the Complex Threads of Social Dynamics”
“Wrinkles of Wisdom: Embracing the Beauty of Aging”
Thoughts on Father’s Day
Father’s Day is always poignant for me because I was blessed with a wonderful, exceptional Dad. So I always want to deeply thank men like my dad, Arthur Driver, who never read a book on parenting, and not many books…
Seen and Safe: Talk therapy as adventure and not a simple “chat”
The Best Love Story Ever
Our stories about love are more than a little crazy. Romeo and Juliet is not a love story—it’s a three-day relationship between a 13- and a 17-year-old. It’s a story of infatuation, which is a word derived from fatuous, or…
A meditation on vulnerability, survival, and comfort when there is no escape.
Moments of raw vulnerability come for everyone – those moments when you feel totally helpless. Like your life is over. One of the great struggles for all of us is to answer the question, “How can I find a way…
International Women’s Day 2021: How EFT and gender equality intersect
Today is International Women’s Day! It always strikes me as a little strange we actually have to have an IWD in 2021 – as women make up half the planet’s population! But we do. This year’s theme is “Choose to…
Ready for Change in 2021? Give Online Therapy a Chance.
I was a non-believer in the idea that online therapy can be just as effective as a live session. Of course, I am all-thumbs when it comes to computers. I believed that the insistence on “online everything” was ruining intimacy…